I have discussed this girl since my first run in with this apparent sales associate Windsor – that chain boutique store at an area mall. Stories with Cuties At Malls have lead to dead ends, especially when seasons changed, almost literally. In fact, I got word in my second encounter she may end in a similar way unless I get more creative and and to chase her out of their doors! The story featured here doesn’t just take place at the mall, it goes back to the situations with my family since the spring. People who know me the closest should not be surprised I am really “Shopping for a Cutie”.
These narratives also should be a guideline on how to flirt appropriately with the presumed opposite gender that is female as apparently autistics are incels! I do not take any responsibility for others using my advice improperly. I outline explicitly how to get a girl to truly like you for both your feminine sympathy and some masculine energy.
In fact there is a video on this as a theory I posted half way between the first time I saw her, and the second time, which was over a month and a half apart!
There’s a lot of risk taking, just socializing with anyone is a risk, let alone opening up. it wasn’t even ten years or so ago, where guy going in a predominately female boutique store would be considered to be a creep factor. Young women from that time, would have their guards up. Flirting in even the sexual sense can be done without even being implicit, making a girl happy is what matters. I will explain this on each instance this girl is the subject.
The Windsor girl is cute, but her personality was as important as her looks. For all I know she has a boyfriend, or she may just engage on the surface. This story might be the end as I think it may be developing.
May 27th (leading up)
This was a really stressful day, and the backstory was my family member going to the court in Nashua for my mother to take guardianship to oversee his care, not to completely take control of his care. The mental health agency rush through legal documentation and written him off in front of the judge, in fact the person who was responsible for his treatment didn’t show up for court. Later as we went northbound to Manchester to the facility, during the visiting hours, I was really pissed off for him, and when we were outside, we walked back to the place telling his counselor how I felt it was an injustice of what I had to observe. She told me other things that I was frustrated as a whole, but not at her personally.
After an entire day of witnessing plain out injustice for my family member, I wanted to go to the mall on the way home. I grabbed attention of other ladies when I visited a couple other stores before walking into Windsor; “retail therapy” was desperately needed, “retail therapy” means to me finding a couple things you don’t need, but you look around once, and if you find something you may come back in and buy it and literally window show around.
The Master Lesson on Showing Appropriate Affection to Ladies For a Positive Outcomes (a/k/a: the Crash Course on Flirting)
It’s not to say that I do this finding ladies; though in the case of the said store, I’ve been in there a few times, crushed on the cutie models on their website when I landed on it once, and I kinda knew what I was getting into. (On the Love & Relationships hour on The Weekly Zoo, one of frequent questions from the “sketch callers” was where to find cute girls, at the juniors department at stores?”)
One girl kinda stood out, this brunette with thick boots, a short skirt, a tiny crop top showing off her belly piercing. The girl isn’t outgoing by default until I said something to the effect “i like your top, cute belly bling, you love to show off being expressive?” She responded with so many thank yous and told me that a year ago she was wearing long sleeves and pants “how tall are those heels?” and she is apparently as tall as me, with at least a four inch heels where everything kinda bumps up.
The way to flirt with a girl like her, is to not objectify her directly. Saying things like “you’re hot” or a phrase for a random example of “you feeling cool by looking hot with your warm soul?” is perhaps word salad to an alpha man, but this is how women will feel automatically objectified because you cut corners, not showing that you have flesh and soul, and by that you assume the girl doesn’t have a flesh and soul either.
Be “punny” “puns” and play on words, lightens your interests and remaps your words to something more pleasant and dare I say the figurative handholding. By being direct, blunt or crude will make the girl run away, but if you’re more indirect but still showing attraction can (and I have to say “can”) much more dividends than just talking like a machine.
A younger woman who shows off her body would know it would grab attention, but making it a narrative, you’ll most likely get a response back. Like earlier I got her to open up when she told me she was co covered up. Why is this interesting to note? Because she’s not used to guys playfully hitting on her at a female exclusive store! Yes I could’ve been peacocking, but you have to say “you’re so hot in that skirt”. While I concede attraction to her, that’s all it is, it’s almost a very low level crush,
Another thing I suggest, was I didn’t buy anything there that day, because I didn’t want to perceive it as “transactional”, because all of this could be for to “sell” more things, if you really want something beyond a “transaction”, you’ll have to get used to visiting a store one day, buying a later day. Yes it requires more trips but it can also cause engagements with other employees and create some health level of gossip between these girls (or at least used to talk about themselves to each other.)
I really suspect that men not being generally curious and interested in women’s fashion is the reason why men are failing to get the girl and that a girl who looks “hot” objectively (but never say out loud of course) doesn’t have a soul with flesh and blood of a human. He doesn’t care about the feelings of her attire, and how it relates to her, since men hate “feelings” generally. If the guy goes abit above the line (albeit appropriately) about her outfit, it changes the response. The way she responded was probably more healthy.
At the same time the guy whose hitting on her playfully is probably feeling threatened for his safety himself. An autistic male like me are the first lines of public enemy. This girl seemed shy to start, but the only to confirm if she’s a complete stiff (or in this case the opposite) was to try. Because I “tried” she opened up when you show soft-things about someone as an experience to the beauty.
This story still is developing, with new developments as of this initial writing; there’s still a probability this may not end in anything (even acquaintanceship) as the ol Ma Bell used to market their phone service “reach out and touch someone!”
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