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How can someone fall in love (ROMANTICALLY) with an autistic?

Posted on January 15, 2013 by Clickford, Steven M.

When they have meltdowns?
When they get upset easily?
When someone has sensory issues?
How can they handle their social quirks?
The busing of the brain that stops processing various the verbal cues, social cues, etc?
I don’t know.
I do know that not everyone with autism can fall in love and go into a lifelong relationship.
Love is a feature missing to some people who suffer of the brain disease known as the Autism Spectrum Disorder or ASD.

Posted in A Puzzling View on Relationships (2011-2014), Features, Romance, Sex and Physical, Six Degress of Relationships, Unanswered Questions | Tagged ASD, Autism, Love, Relationships, Romantic Relationships

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Millennials

These people who were born concurrently during the first-wave, that are technically "peers" are really my advisories. (You think I hate them? 80% of them should've been sent to an abortion clinic and burnt into ashes)

Autism-Moms

Pick-Me Mom mixed with a special needs child, creates a world of exceptional, toxic, narcissistic, and incest emotional monsters! Thank you Age of Autism!

Toxic Masculinity

Toxicity is defined in recent years as "narcissistic" personalities, people with "dark triad" traits, inspiring to have Machiavellian power... and it's coming from the so-called "red pill" online community? And what is that enforcing? Masculinity. So welcome to a reprise of men with toxic traits. Unless we can curb it!

#NHPol (or if you want to be a formal ol man, #NHPolitics)

Everything in New Hampshire Must. Be. Politicized. at the General Court where our Legislature meets, but the real regressive poli happens at the executive level, the people running the DOE and DHHS, Gotta teach them kids some self-advocacy!

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Mini Bio

I'm Steven, I just happen to have this autistic condition for my entire life... no one ever looks at anyone over the age of 21. My said condition is very rare, I would come off as a kind and empathetic type, but others like to frame me as some creepy narcissist type. Oh in case you didn't know, I come off typical, but I am just slightly below typical, but above the average atypical. So I am still screwed! When I was told I was autistic back in 1999, it was a death sentence to me. Since the only way to overcome autism is to break my back...how sick? My life has really not changed that much since the creation of An Alleged Autistic... must be my fault for choosing to be autistic and not wanting to change. Can't be challenged. The long outline can be seen here. (For those who are wondering, I've worked with my therapist for more than 6 years meeting on every Wednesday - so yeah I've been doing the so-called work for years!) On the bright side, a lot of my rhetoric was very hot and angry, I attribute the 2011-2017 to be very cynical and jaded, where that therapy turned me more skeptical; and a lot of the fears from 2015 really did happen and the only anger I have is how could people make stupid mistakes for people like me?