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Breaking News: New Hampshire Senate today May Cancel the state’s Council on Autism Spectrum Disorders…

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On today’s docket in Concord, our legislature wants to disband the NHCASD. A comment in a family support interest group is rather interesting on Facebook, which supports the disbanding… the parent seems to be pro co dependent supports and has a focus on cute little boy audiences not the hairy ol creepy men types

“As a parent who’s deeply involved in advocating for individuals with autism and their families, I want to share my thoughts about the NH Autism Spectrum Disorder Council. This council used to be a strong voice for our community, but unfortunately, it hasn’t been effective for a very long time.
When the council first started (2008), it did amazing work. They held trainings, worked on important laws, and provided resources that helped families like ours. But over the years, it’s become almost invisible. Since 2017—seven years ago—there haven’t been any public meetings, no annual reports, and no real action to address the needs of our community. This includes no response to the challenges families faced during the COVID-19 pandemic.
What’s even more frustrating is that, despite not doing anything for years, the council was able to pass legislation to add more members (2022). This makes me wonder: how can a council that hasn’t met in seven years justify its existence, let alone expanding?
I’ve been open about my concerns with this council and how it’s failed to address autism-related issues in our state. I’ve talked to past council members, state representatives, and others to share my frustration. I even tried to join the council as a parent representative, but I ran into the same barriers that many other families have faced; gatekeeping.
The last big thing this council did was the Connor Law back in 2011—over a decade ago.
That’s why I’m advocating for repealing this council and moving its responsibilities under the NH Quality Council. At least 51% of the NH Quality Council’s members are individuals with disabilities or parents of individuals served by the system. This council has had decades to improve snd develop. Waste of resources in actual help for NH families.”

I will try to do a rapid response video after the fact

 

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On the morning of March 16th aprox 5:30 am Eastern Time, our security people was notified that from Friday and Saturday, at least 2,500 hits came onto several different websites on the domain clickfo.me (which I own and manage.) It seemed like The Hopeless Autistic took the brunt. While there was no notice of performance, other critical services that is hosted remotely did have degraded performance.

For cybersecurity purposes, the website will be locked down until we know the concern and when fades. We suspect the hits are nefarious and will be taking a deep dive across server logs and other metrics.

In short, all posts will be locked down, and no new postings until the threat subsides.

Thanks!

 

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My autistic disorder is not an identity, but it has become somewhat of who I am. Ironically people are not flinching when I describe myself as “hopeless”. The URL and title of this blog acted as a warning sign if people didn’t pay attention to see the tears, but then reacted too late after hearing the cries.

I was never into self-advocacy (now in 2024 as “activism” as a group, but more in into my day to day challenges in day programs for adults. As the system demanded me and my group to be in the community more and more, with the overall community (as well as the younger Millennial generation not understanding us) but yet I really do not relate to my group either. However self-advocacy at least in the last decade has gotten into politics, the state legislature, and overall politics. the messaging has gotten worse, and more and more voices are coming from other groups other than mine.

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Finally Saw The #WindsorGirl…AGAIN

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A Continuation of a saga of a cutie at a chain boutique store, and a follow up in the search for her

“I was having a bad morning and seeing you made my day” stated Kayla

July 1st

I had a Zoom session with my therapist who became mine following the events in the first year of the Hopeless Autistic. One of the things he wished we talked about more was girls, relationships sex or other things of this nature. Due to the recent events, and I only see him virtually on a monthly basis, that such subject was brought up. The day before, I brought this up to my friend whose doing respite, who formerly worked at my day program as a DSP. Both agreed the approach and my respite pal was agreeing that the only way to flirt is trial by error. This is unfortunately the situation so many are in.

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Conservatism – is it a threat to people like me?

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Society has gone through series of directions overtime. If you heard lately “we should go back to the 1950s”, what they really mean was the 1950s the last well known time period, as the the man being the bread winner, women stayed in the kitchen, and a push for christian values, with heterosexual marriage and procreation, for the elder man’s own narcissistic legacy. Did I say this so called American Dream or “American”, “nuclear family” was only acclaible to Caucasian people?

They imply turning back to this time, because it predates the 1960s, the decade of that lead to civil rights, the invention of birth control, and the rise of feminism, and its various “waves”. But if you get your news from Just Pearly Things, a YouTuber of over a million subscribers; who is now selling merch that “Women Shouldn’t Vote” and is completely clueless to Putin and his extermination towards unorthodox conservatives… if you never heard of her, then you’re missing out on why this nostalgia should be fought against.

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Men Scare Me…Part Eight

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2022 was a cringy year for masculinity. In less than a year, a man I never heard of, was detained and arrested at the end of the year for child trafficking.

This man is Andrew Tate and his brother Tristian.

For those who are not familiar of these two, they are Pickup Artists, bragging about all their alleged wealth through apparent multi level marketing pyramid schemes to turn men more masculine and pick up girls. Their masculinity is very traditional… err toxic and they seek out men to be as macho as possible while getting the most softest, feminine, submissive girl in their lives. Whether or not they lean into Long Term Relationships is outside of his scope.

At the end of the year, after a Twitter feud with Greta Thunberg and Andrew Tate, Thunberg believe it or not is autistic (I never knew it formally till a week ago) and Tate, the allegedly typical guy didn’t get the sarcasm from the female autistic making a phony email address on climate change accusing him of “low dick energy”. It was fucking hilarious and after a video reply of Tate denying climate change, bragging about his wheels, a pizza box was delivered to him as the cameras rolled (of which Tate explicitly said to not recycle), the print of the pizza joint confirmed that Tate and his brother was in Romania and the police allegedly took him to custody for alleged sex trafficking.

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Men Scare Me…part two

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Scott Galloway, the alleged leftist NYU Business School professor, is now becoming more and more alpha. He has been really critical about the young men and the crisis they are in. This is the same man who advocated Facebook to spin off Instagram so there could be more “innovation”. The same man who insisted AT&T was right to be broken up, and there’s less and less telecom jobs. This guy is a fucking hypocrite. he’s so fucking clueless.

Yes I had skimmed through the Coddling of the Minds, but that book was based on junk science (no facts on peanuts and allergies) and overall generalization of overprotection of Generation Z. My theory is parents of Gen Xers are not tech literate, and many have co-dependency issues, the kids want to run away and the tech was their safety net, and I should say that with utmost light tone.  But you can make the same case for Gen Xers with their parents both working, and they would be out till sunset; well was being out and about good either? Because they seem to be like their parents, cold, and emotionally unavailable.

Well that’s questioning authority Steven… you should STFU!

Site Update

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In early June, the import process of An Alleged Autistic/The Forgotten Autistic was completed. Now a projection by 3Q 2022 the written works by me from early 2011 to 2013 will be publicized; but will be sanitized for clarity, for sensitivity and other things since my name is behind this work.

5th Grade – Hopeless Romantic, confirmed (Hopeless Autistic)

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In late 2018, I finally arrived to the litmus test of what would solidify the Hopeless Autistic status from the late 1990s, just a year before the diagnosis was brought to my attention after SHTF.

In a Facebook Messenger thread of school age friend, of which 2 years worth of conversations was actually printed out at 147 pages, for a discovery. Mind you, the only video chat occurred around this time, in late 2018. Millennials really use Facebook for pics and texts.

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