When I created A Puzzling View on Relationships, I remember getting flack on the socials at the time for being “bitter”. In the last decade (err really a couple years after 2012), I did try to improve myself to the best of my ability; then after receiving therapy, I still struggled. It’s how one communicates feeling left-out.
In reality, I am no different than when I was 25 in terms of being single, or worse perpetually single. The environment gotten so much worse. It was years before #MeToo, it was years before MGTOW and PUAs coming out of the fringes into cringes in the mainstream. In 2021, being single was probably the worse part. Add the horrible politics of 2022 with women, it makes it a really tough time to be a man if being a man is so politically incorrect.
The shit on YouTube scares the living hell out of me. The conservatives and liberals both being demeaning to men, degrading them, forcing men to have “high value” but worse even go so cringe to compare women’s “body count” and if said thing causes her to have “extra mileage”. For any sheltered people over the age of 21, I am referring to sex and the partners they have. The reasoning why “body counts” adding “extra mileage” means she may have too many partners and it would hurt the purity of the offspring.
Men believe they have “agency” (err authority) to women only because they built things like bridges and buildings, because they do that, why would that not be sexy? Oh wait, sex is for the sole purpose of procreation. You put your dick into the girl’s hole and make it painful as hell to build that man’s legacy.
Then you have men that are advocating to de-masculinate (the word is made up) and “undefine” their masculinity. Mix in like a “feminist that loves men”, whose also 35 and single, with lousy messaging; and you sit by your screen and say “um what is the best path I should be going?” You’re punished for being too feminine; you’re punished for being over assertive (that’s to them “agressive” and “toxic”) you ignore Jordan Peterson and the air-head muscle man that is Joe Rogan, who has no intellectual experience other than being an entertainer; yet you’re not manly-enough or you’re more than enough and that’s not great ether.
New Hampshire is a state of majority female, women are protected by law because apparently men like to abuse, if you watch WMUR-TV Manchester on a routine basis. Or if it’s a small business woman that want’s power, she can go to the major media outlets and get herself made. Do you see that with men under 40 that isn’t fully Caucasian? Of course not! So much for Live Free or Die, it’s Live Free or Kill Yourself (If you are not in protected class) or Live Free to those Who Are in Power.
As I used to say on The Weekly Zoo and the L&R Hour, the parties that ruined it was the conservative views of the 1950s, the idea that controlling people, treating adults like children and having the world revolve around the man backfired because it was fake and phony. Sure I have heard the antidotes that women in other parts of the world (even in Western cultures) are more “traditional”, it doesn’t mean that roles and be tweaked, and not have the man be the sole breadwinner and the woman having to be the homemaker. I suspect if I had traveled to Europe the upper twentysomethings may come after me than any American woman has ever done to me. I’d go so far to expand that to North American, because our cultures may creep north and south to Canada and Mexico too.
I also repeatedly said on both The Zoo and L&R, that fathers are not teaching their presumable heterosexual daughters what causes the attraction and how to handle them. If the father is not-there for his daughter, then how will she become a woman and deal with guys coming for her romantic attention?
When you have a far right, extreme traditionalists against modern and toxic feminists, what result would occur? Nothing. Regression, and we are falling backwards perspicuously and the politics of 2022 just makes it worse. I spent many years trying to verify if this was my doing or someone elses, but while I went on the assumption that it was my problem, I had more verification that it was someone else’s issue. What would Jordi Peterson say? I am still “wrong” because I am autistic?
It sucks to be a male, that’s also has an autistic condition with a very regressive situation that makes my autism simply manageable… the situation is more autistic than me!