I thought I’d express some editorial not on the weekend of Mother’s Day because that would be insensitive.
From what I read a few years back the New York Post ran an editorial stating that the woman (I am forgetting the name) who came up with the day was not a mother and noticed years later that it was over commercialized. This is the classic example of the haves vs. the have-nots. She wasn’t a mother but noticed from the outside looking in that they were undervalued. Till the days when Hallmark went overboard and made this almost a global holiday for that group.
It’s time to retire the day because afterall it’s commercialized instead. All we are doing is spoiling women for all the wrong reasons.
I still believe fathers are undervalued even more than mothers. I mean look at how Father’s Day always lands during graduation season. Do you think it was coincidence or something else? The cynic in me think’s its the latter not the former. Why would you cramp an appreciation day during a season that’s always going to reoccur, especially on the East Coast?
I mean if we celebrate Mother’s Day, then are we supporting the crazy mothers who write online diaries masqueraded as a “newspaper”? Where do we draw the line? Is it more than just supporting “mothers”?
Some of this I think lands at radical feminism. This concept is well past “equal pay”, the “equal rights”, or destroying the “man’s world” work environment. I do not like how women are being marginalized; and many women are suppressed to believe in one man’s view or loose their jobs, I’m talking about CNN’s Alysn Camerotta (the only smart blond on the Fox News Channel till they let her go. A recent interview explained her bad experiences at FNC; which is very consistent to other complaints.) Other women in other fields have struggled as well. The radical feminism however, is more destructive than just trying to get the foot at the door because your t–s are in the way. No, its women trying to be like men to get at the door. The “I’m a woman hear me roar” is the most aggressive and even threatening. Men themselves who act like lions or wolves are just as bad. This is why IT departments need to be shut down and the arrogant and cocky IT guys should live in their almost deceased mother’s basement. (And collect state checks.)
I am not saying that women’s gender roles shouldn’t be redefined, it’s their attitude, arrogance, and mindset that is similar to why they hate men the first place; causing adverse effects that would make men go gynophobic or worse – hate them as well. By causing this synthetic hate, then you’re making feminism run out of control.
Going back to mothers; between feminism and motherly types, many of these people tend to work in special education or adult day care programs. Many have kids who are grown up, they have entered or past menopause – and let’s be honest when the hormones dry up, they become even more clingy to the vulnerable. They are most often “can’t turn off the ‘mothering'” and such professions are not even unprofessional. I do not like how these people can have a job in the first place. I have been libeled in “confidential” psychological evaluations of my late psychologist that I had intentionally bonded with “middle aged women”. What’s ironic was I never had such intentions; and she herself was an evil leftie feminist/man hating- but married to a man/mother of all motherly types. (Hope there was a special place in hell when New Year’s Day came and went…sorry for speaking ill of the deceased.) Now if there were MILF-types, then there would be argument if I had gravitated towards “motherly” women. There are a couple I know I do kinda like leaning towards them.
By no means am I trying to bash the mothers who had a broken family even before having a child out of wedlock.
“Roaming Millenial”, ‘Roaming’ like a Windows NT profile where you jump from one thin client to another I suppose, had posted a video in February with very poor style and attacking many groups. The reason why this doesn’t bother me is she’s too much of a p—–y to respond to comments and she’s under cloak. Corruption and power to distort messages often happens with pseudonyms – there is no known real name, age and even location where she is posting arguementively alt-right movements. However, it’s this stigma that hurts the children who had no choice to have a single mother. She never responded to my comment about her reckless attacks. I bet she has a super rich father she lives off on but doesn’t say on her air. And how can you take her seriously with her lack of ENG/EFP editing skills…
But for many others its bleak: younger women, they aren’t getting married, and some will get impregnated then will raise them on their own because allowing a man to help would devalue themselves as being “independent women”. Having no father figure, the man of reason, the man of last resort, and checks-and-balances of parenting has gone up in smoke. Being a single mother, because the aforementioned reasons of why they can’t get a significant job; has made the income and social strata harder to break. Or if they are in the higher brackets, they are most likely unable to raise their own children.
There is plenty of documentation that a fatherless homes have been the reason for higher risk of crimes, imprisonment, and other related things. Also for girls, they tend to develop puberty sooner, and early cases of puberty can cause health impacts later in life.
By no means am I trying to bash the mothers who had a broken family even before having a child out of wedlock. I would believe that some of these cases of kids being raised without a father began even before the Millenials came around, and no preaching to the choir for any distant father figure in my life had ever occurred.
For me there is a stigma living without a father. I do not have someone who is strong, or is resilient and could take a hit here and there. In short I am tired of the celebration of overprotective, women acting like wild animals and threatening types of humans esp the vulernable.
It’s time to retire the day because afterall it’s commercialized instead. All we are doing is spoiling women for all the wrong reasons.