Category Archives: Romance

Advice on Love

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If you love someone so much, do not show it. To some people, its considered inappropriate and improper forms of affection. This is limited to anyone with a disorder, if you look like a creep or not!
Do not insist on chasing after her. Of course, we are assuming you Asperger Syndrome punks understand that didn’t mean literally. If that is the case, you should sign up to be a Level 3 Sex Offender as we are taught to act like, because thanks to your group that has ruined it for the rest of us! Figuratively, that can be considered as stalking or harassment.
Do not show forms of public displays of affection. It is considered socially inappropriate to some groups, illegal in various jurisdictions. Maybe OK in Connecticut, but probably illegal in England, Canada or some very illtolerant jurisdiction. I don’t think I need to say sexual harassment unless you are socially retarded to not know that excessive PDA is just trashy.
More coming soon as this will be a continuing theme

Busy bodies and busy Relationships

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It’s rather interesting how people today are lacking relationship skills and not just social skills ether.  I blame this on airplanes, the Web and just the acceptation that its okay to screw someone and jump around jobs like its no ones business.
I’ve been using Match.com for nearly a couple of months and I do not like to engage a user that lives in New Hampshire but lived in Colorado for a decade or someone who lives in Boston who came from the Midwest and loves everything about Boston. Simply, I know there is more to New England than the City itself. I love Springfield, Hartford, Providence, Burlington, and Worcester! Isn’t that a surprise!
(Of course, I withheld Portland or Augusta because Maine sucks – I’ve  been there enough to say they are weirdos and hicks – that’s why I don’t visit there that often!)
I digress.
However, this kind of busy lifestyles doesn’t work well with someone who has difficulty transitioning from one place to another. I rarely moved in my lifetime, only about 3 or 4 miles of where I spent most of my first 23 years of my life. When I was 23, it was about 12 or so miles that I moved from the previous town I lived in.
The problem in three words? Lack of  Loyalty.
I grew up in New Hampshire, and traveled around the region, I wouldn’t trade this area for anywhere else. I have some, and I say some pride of where I live. Many of my peer groups does not have such level of some respect.
And this to me is a problem. The Millennial generation (i.e. the synthetically autistic types) are still acting like teenagers as some in this generation are 36 years old. For some reason we have allowed the vast majority of the normal functioning population to act like autistics while my group are expected to function as normal as possible. Which explains why marriage is much later and having children at a later age is happening. Dare I say having a child in their 30s can cause birth defects or even disabilities like autism. Even worse north of 40? These childish people are relying on unreliable technology to have children at a later age.
Again, I am probably making a low educated opinion on this, but craved stability since middle school. Even when I rarely moved physically, I went to several schools in almost every 2 years.  The staff in the schools had a very short shelflife too. Again, they were the twentysomethings figuring their lives out with the most mission critical job required of such lack of responsibilities. On top of the very young age, the other excuse was “they need to start somewhere”.

I feel sometimes I’ve worked in the local TV news business, when one’s job security (historically) was lot worse than other jobs like working in the public sector, the phone company, or corporate jobs, and if someone got randomly fired, their career in TV news was actually “cursed”.  The Special Education world worked much like a particular Boston news station, and to use such analogy is pretty pathetic. Because no individual should feel like their classroom is a newsroom of a revolving doors of producers (teachers) or director (executive management) while the child (student) is like the viewer witnessing dysfunctional news operation.

Though I feel that loyalty the lack thereof is a roadblock to future relationships for me. How can I get “locked into” a relationship if the girl wants to move to California or Houston or some other random place in 2 years?
I can’t live such life anymore. I can’t imagine anyone living like that.

Friends, Girlfriends and Relationships

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As you know – when it comes to almost any type of relationships – for me, its Greek, a foreign language. That’s why there is a blog about relationships published by yours truly!
Some of this has to do with conflicting social protocols. What am I talking about? I’m talking about when a friend of your’s gets into “A Relationship”. I’ve heard from many people that when someone gets a boy or girlfriend their relationships around them start to shutter. Supposedly, they spend a lot of time with their girlfriend, or Significant Other (S.O.)
I cannot personally confirm this since I, myself have never been in any romantic relationships.
What I do know is this: when someone enters into any romantic relationship – they shouldn’t be shuttering the other relationships they had prior to. To me when one falls in love, they become selfish, lack of respect to their friends (dare I say “single” friends) and the whole relationship with the friend changes. Can I say narcissistic?
In today’s society we have already accepted the fact that we can’t fight the mass numbers of selfish, self entitled, narcissistic, me, me, me types.  I have had to deal with these types for so many years, and sadly I have settled to accept the fact that there really aren’t that many caring people to begin with, worse when they become in love.
I can’t run away from the puzzling world of relationships, can’t I?

Dogs

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My family doesn’t like dogs. I won’t say they hate them, but they don’t like them. My folks have a strong case of OCD (as well as undiagonsed cases of ASD) and since dogs are dirty and can sometimes be unruly, I have been raised to not really like them.
On my Match.com journey, there are many girls on there who ether have dogs or demand that their date likes dogs. And some of these girls are probably 70% compatible.
Who woulda thunk that “man’s best friend” would be the dealbreaker finding my future best friend? Oh wait, I wasn’t meant to have someone in my life. I was here for my mother and she’ll probably be around till my dying day (gawd willing) since my mother had me young. And I forgot,  no “normal” functioning girl wants to date a guy with autism.

Confidence

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Match.com’s app tells me that “women are attracted to confidence.”
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Oh really? I have found “confidence” to be arrogance. You know like the ol’ MySpace bumper sticker that said “Confidence… is what makes a girl sexy.” That really should had read “Confidence…is what makes a girl slutty.”
I am so tired of how there is so much standards for men as women can do whatever the fuck she wants and gets away with it whether its her monthly period or her “social capital” or whatever freckin excuse that can make her arrogant.
I have gotten myself locked into another 3 months worth of a subscription to find my future friend forever, but that hasn’t gotten to well. Not that my profile is “negative” you see, its always the girls who tease and want the attention but fail it miserably when an opportunity knocks, on her door you see.

Why can’t we be more tough against girls?

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What drives me nuts is why girls are getting away of being girls and boys are being crucified of being boys – I cannot understand that.  For the first time in modern history women have now advanced men in social acceptability, however some are using it to just advance themselves only because they have tits and cunts. Yeah, that sounds sick huh?
Now you guys know why its so hard for someone like me who is a man, suffering with autism that can’t advance himself because society is so liberal. Liberal in the sense that everyone must agree of the same views, because if god forbid someone who is diverse and doesn’t agree with them – then they are on the shitlist for being a racist, a homophobic and other remarks even if it doesn’t have to do with race or homosexuality.
With my politics aside, girls are treated as God like figures – we can’t mess around with them. (again thanks to the godless society we live in!) Girls just because they have tits and cunts, can use excuses like they were bitchy because they were having their period, they can be bitchy because they are trying to figure themselves out. They can be bitchy because their stupid boyfriend broke up with them. And yet its all good. All kosher!
You know, why are fathers not raising their daughters? Why are mothers enabling them to be a sex object? And if so, then why to they allow them to be a sex object to have super high confidence then they need to teach them safety like staying away from boys because they are all sex offenders?
This is the shit we have to deal with.  And many of us guys can’t get a girlfriend all because of this damned feminism (thank you Gloria Stienem! thank you Lady GaGa!) and a lack of effective parenting of daughters and allowing girls to show off their bodies and not have any accountability of the effects of them dressing up like a sex object! There is a problem with the vast majority of Baby Boomers/Millenials of sex, sex and more sex without any accountability. Another problem is the encouragement of teasing, so a boy gets a hard-on, and girls won’t allow boys to touch them. Sometimes getting erections can be deadly, and I bet a few younger guys also have ED, but I’ll leave that for another post.
I by no means try to degrade women or girls on this blog.  What’s degrading is how women that want to act like women whine like teenage girls and such whining is how they have become God and less of the Devil.
 

$ and Female Attention

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It’s that time of the year where I need to close out the previous fiscal reporting year of my finances. Depending on what accounts I have, I close it at the end of February or the end of May. Some of this reporting is for annual audits for some of benefits I receive.
Regardless, I put the various accounts in separate piles the scan them into a large PDF file then I send it to my mother for her responsibilities.
Last year, I’ve gone out a lot such as restaurants and fast food joints and many, upon MANY trips to the local Dunkin Donuts, where there I had a crush on one of the girls who worked there. That particular shop closed recently and I don’t know where she was reassigned or left the franchise.
I do know I have many of those receipts in the last 13 or so months. On top of that, factored in the other trips like the pizza joints before I was turned off by one girl that worked at that place where Facebook profile showed party girl status and another girl at another joint appeared to be married, and a little snooty too and the other usual places as well.
I wrote earlier last year about the possible cost of trying to get a girl to like me. This liability also had extended in my general expenses (Gen Ex) such as the local used book store (where that girl was allegedly in a relationship with a bf according to her Facebook profile) the local Savers, often getting things to basically just to hit on them which 99% of the chances were slim to none.
2012 was a year where my spending was totally out of control – only to impress them with zero outcomes.
I’ve never told anyone about my hidden agenda, and previously I had mentioned the possible costs. At that time, I knew I was a little excessive and now I’m seeing the actual damage.
The financial impact of trying to get some acceptance to society can be very costly, and what’s so sick is this can be prevented if people stop making developmentally disabled people being targeted as looser, or ghetto creeps or a looser living in his mother’s attic.
This year I have been more cautious in spending, coming to the realization that no one would want to be in a lifetime relationship of someone suffering with an autistic disorder.
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The Excuses of why Autistic People Can’t Fall in Love

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I’ve did this a while back, let me revisit it with a few new excuses:

  • I didn’t know autistic people can talk!
  • They read someone’s Match profile and they are turned off because an autistic CAN actually imitate or copy off a woman’s feelings, i.e. their profile appears to turn a man off!
  • They realize they have the potential to have some relationship, but fears to do so to protect the political agenda set forth by organizations like Autism Speaks, the bible known as the Diagnosis and Statistical Manual of mental disorders or DSM that essentially claims that autistic people are mute and dumb (still to this day!)
  • The school boards of various locales lowers their social skills standards as creeps and perverts. The most liberal governing districts are the ones that lower this the most.
  • Speaking about low standards, girls typically don’t date guys with a lower social scale, educational backgrounds or even work statuses, so anyone with autism just lowers their standards even more
  • Girls or ladies can’t handle his’ sensory overload.
  • They feel they are too smart for them (but yet they want an intelligent man)
  • Some “normal” girls think autistics should date their own type (“find someone your own size!”)

That’s all for now, I’ll post more if I find more excuses, ahem, reasons why people don’t want to mess around with us!

Why I Hate Vday, part five

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Valentine’s Day doesn’t bother me much anymore. I think about it, but I don’t let it get to me.
Life is too short to get upset about some silly day for card companies, lingerie entities, chocolate manufacturers and dating websites owned by greedy media tycoons. Its afterall a day created by the Catholics, some people don’t believe in their faiths.
Love and romance is too complicated. It will always be puzzling for me and I don’t plan to ever figure the whole thing out.
Other than that, Valentine’s Day is a windfall for businesses.
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Sexual Harrassment Training

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Yes, I’m going to cover my sex harassment class on this blog.
I had actively had an IT services business up until last July. I had to shut it down (i.e. find a real paying job) since I couldn’t function with no business.
Regardless, I still on an occasion do stuff.
But my IT services business is typically sitting down and doing terminal work such as active directory, domains, and other server related stuff. I do get down on my hand and knees sometimes when a ProLiant craps out for whatever reason.
So I consider my business as corporate class. As such, I often do annual things like creating my own Acceptable Usage Policies or AUP to connect to my own network, and sometimes sign other forms like that quarterly and other things you would expect in a corporation.
So as such, I’m going to watch an online presentation and sign off after the fact.
Now I can’t speak to the normal people but in my high school, before the sex ed lessons began, we had to start off  with a sexual harassment video. (We didn’t sign forms unlike my company.)
For whatever reason, special needs people, whether or not they did something “creepy” in the past or what, we were treated as the same.
Here is a few pointers:

  • Whether or not it was intentional or not, it is illegal to harass in a sexual nature
  • Using various phrases can be illegal
  • touching in a spot that someone could be offended is wrong
  • You can look, but you can’t touch someone
  • Hugging should be limited
  • If you want to kiss a single stranger, ask first! Never Push!
  • I believe public displays of affection is wrong, and considered as sexual harrassment
  • Since I am a contractor, I can’t go and give out contact to a prospective customer, as that could be considered as soliciting for a date business relationship
  • Hostility can be very serious, if someone is witnessing (whether its at work or in the public domain) behavior like PDA or other harassing behaviors that could cause threat or harm to the couple or the harasser, it can be bad. Examples like quitting a job, blackmail or even wanting to commit suicide.
  • Such practices should extend to electronic services such as online sites, Facebook and other social media services.

Again in closing, not intended to harass people is not the point.  Sexual Harassment, or just plain embarrassment is that ones perception is the reality. Perception is Reality. Whether or not it was intentional or not, it is illegal to harass in a sexual nature
I hope you are well trained and you sign your annual form that you had been in training and you are now in compliance with corporate policies and state and local laws!
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