Category Archives: A Puzzling View on Relationships (2011-2014)

A Puzzling View on Relationships existed on WordPress from 2012 to 2014. The concept was based on search results from An Alleged Autistic “can autistics fall in love”, etc. Back when Google and WordPress could give you those results. Posts from 2011 to August 2012 came from An Alleged Autistic first, since A Puzzling View went live in September of that year.

Why can’t we be more tough against girls?

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What drives me nuts is why girls are getting away of being girls and boys are being crucified of being boys – I cannot understand that.  For the first time in modern history women have now advanced men in social acceptability, however some are using it to just advance themselves only because they have tits and cunts. Yeah, that sounds sick huh?
Now you guys know why its so hard for someone like me who is a man, suffering with autism that can’t advance himself because society is so liberal. Liberal in the sense that everyone must agree of the same views, because if god forbid someone who is diverse and doesn’t agree with them – then they are on the shitlist for being a racist, a homophobic and other remarks even if it doesn’t have to do with race or homosexuality.
With my politics aside, girls are treated as God like figures – we can’t mess around with them. (again thanks to the godless society we live in!) Girls just because they have tits and cunts, can use excuses like they were bitchy because they were having their period, they can be bitchy because they are trying to figure themselves out. They can be bitchy because their stupid boyfriend broke up with them. And yet its all good. All kosher!
You know, why are fathers not raising their daughters? Why are mothers enabling them to be a sex object? And if so, then why to they allow them to be a sex object to have super high confidence then they need to teach them safety like staying away from boys because they are all sex offenders?
This is the shit we have to deal with.  And many of us guys can’t get a girlfriend all because of this damned feminism (thank you Gloria Stienem! thank you Lady GaGa!) and a lack of effective parenting of daughters and allowing girls to show off their bodies and not have any accountability of the effects of them dressing up like a sex object! There is a problem with the vast majority of Baby Boomers/Millenials of sex, sex and more sex without any accountability. Another problem is the encouragement of teasing, so a boy gets a hard-on, and girls won’t allow boys to touch them. Sometimes getting erections can be deadly, and I bet a few younger guys also have ED, but I’ll leave that for another post.
I by no means try to degrade women or girls on this blog.  What’s degrading is how women that want to act like women whine like teenage girls and such whining is how they have become God and less of the Devil.
 

$ and Female Attention

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It’s that time of the year where I need to close out the previous fiscal reporting year of my finances. Depending on what accounts I have, I close it at the end of February or the end of May. Some of this reporting is for annual audits for some of benefits I receive.
Regardless, I put the various accounts in separate piles the scan them into a large PDF file then I send it to my mother for her responsibilities.
Last year, I’ve gone out a lot such as restaurants and fast food joints and many, upon MANY trips to the local Dunkin Donuts, where there I had a crush on one of the girls who worked there. That particular shop closed recently and I don’t know where she was reassigned or left the franchise.
I do know I have many of those receipts in the last 13 or so months. On top of that, factored in the other trips like the pizza joints before I was turned off by one girl that worked at that place where Facebook profile showed party girl status and another girl at another joint appeared to be married, and a little snooty too and the other usual places as well.
I wrote earlier last year about the possible cost of trying to get a girl to like me. This liability also had extended in my general expenses (Gen Ex) such as the local used book store (where that girl was allegedly in a relationship with a bf according to her Facebook profile) the local Savers, often getting things to basically just to hit on them which 99% of the chances were slim to none.
2012 was a year where my spending was totally out of control – only to impress them with zero outcomes.
I’ve never told anyone about my hidden agenda, and previously I had mentioned the possible costs. At that time, I knew I was a little excessive and now I’m seeing the actual damage.
The financial impact of trying to get some acceptance to society can be very costly, and what’s so sick is this can be prevented if people stop making developmentally disabled people being targeted as looser, or ghetto creeps or a looser living in his mother’s attic.
This year I have been more cautious in spending, coming to the realization that no one would want to be in a lifetime relationship of someone suffering with an autistic disorder.
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The Trauma of being Raised in Suburbia

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I grew up in what really was an upper middle class town from a lower income family. My grandfamily lived in the same neighborhood for almost their entire life, so I was under the impression the “small town” world in the community I grew up was actually people knowing others name, a friendly, a humble ego, when in fact it was the total opposite. I live in the Boston, Massachusetts  area, so Southern New Hampshire has become a huge metro area to Boston in the last 20 years. Its a lot worse now than it was like 5-10 years ago.
Supposedly the numbers of autism is much higher in lower social class, but that doesn’t mean an ultra rich could have an autistic child or adult/it

I started to have doubts about the “small town” climate when I was around 20. I think part of it was the normal experience of not being as naive,  I think part of it was to do with not looking outside my window, but really my browser window on my computer. With the advent of Facebook and MySpace, I started to realize how absurd the rich suburban brats really were.  The town was mostly republican or conservative, but that didn’t matter, because the liberal people were just as indecent.

So what I am getting at is living in the suburbs is really brutal as someone who isn’t one of “those people*” To start, people in this area drive big vehicles. You’d be asking: so what if someone wants to drive big SUV? Well what if you are going over the speed limit of 30 miles an hour? Especially in a dense part of a town that has thousands of people and a road that was built with no intention of becoming a suburban? Its an entitlement of a driver can do whatever the fuck he wants with no responsibility.
*a phrase actually used to describe the lower class by an unnamed planning board member in unnamed community several years ago.

People in this state take our motto pretty seriously, and in fact we have a lot of out of staters coming here just because they want to Live Free or Die. And they can be a little extreme, I just mentioned the speed limit. They love to personalize their license plates. Not sure why, but not that I have anything wrong of personalizing plate issued by the local Department of Safety, the parent agency of our DMV where actually the D stands for Division; but some of them just go too far. I just ask myself: can you be more self centered?

I hear the phrase “like” every other word  and more and more do I hear the Southern California whiney dialect more and more. Most people around here are very materialistic. Not that there’s anything wrong of showing off your Abercrombie shorts or jacket from Guess, but I think people don’t have any understanding the value of the dollar, let’s use the example of girls, where they live off their daddy’s paycheck or retirement depending how old he is.

Which goes back to the fathers meets their little girls. Again this area is somewhat conservative, lets just use the phrase traditional. Traditional like looking down at autistics and other disabled people. You got the stereotypes of  the protective father who looks down at the looser who is lives on the streets in the urban area and you got fathers who are very stubborn at any guy living with his mother and these overprotective fathers are often found in Suburbia.
Meanwhile, according to some organization, there was a stat that New Hampshire was #1 of the most tolerant state of people with developmental disabilities. Unless they overcounted the Great North Woods over the Merrimack Valley I don’t know. Living in the downstate area, I beg to differ. There are areas where they think the government should be no business of helping people with intense disabilities. You got “little bus” jokes the “Special Olympics” jokes mixed in, so how in the hell can they claim that this little state of over a million-five people is “tolerant”? It puzzles me.

So that being said, growing up in the Suburbs can be really painful and having to suffer living in a lower middle class and someone suffering with a disorder he didn’t ask for and the arrogance of where I live is still traumatic.

And with that being said, I don’t ask for a “handout”! If I am frustrated, its the HUMAN aspect, how people perceive someone different social class.

Suggestions to people who fuck around with Teenage Autistics

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This is a simulm-post that I wrote on my other blog recently, this post contributes to the puzzling world about relationships that might, just might be somewhat unfairly overstretched. 

I have a few suggestions to anyone who has more than a 4 year degree in Psych-o-logy, Teaching, a Doctor’s Degree in Autism, or whathave you:

  • Please stop being a narcissistic bitch: i.e. learning one single study and learning just one set of skills. By acting similar to an Asperger Syndrome punk, having a narrow-focus hurts yourself and not only that, you are hurting the autistic people around you! By being a “childhood” or an “adolescent psychologist” all you give a shit is about here and now. You never seem to have any concern if the child turns 21 and they all fall into the cliff thanks to your retardation of understanding humans – simply because you focus on one group of people!
  • Be Accountable – an adolescent mind is being formed in their teenage years. Nothing sucks more than someone like me, now at 26 to figure out what is real and what is fucking bullshit. If you are really fucking around with my brain for no reason, ASL *stop* . *stop* this psycho crap!
  • Realistic standards v.s. Utopian standards. Sadly this is really disturbing. We are taught how to socialize, how to reciprocate and how to retain an alleged relationship, when in the real world all those skills are really just Utopian and the the real standards are people being rude, and screwing around and not sticking with one relationship of any kind. Sadly this should apply to normal people vs someone like me, but I think I am done with this
  • Have a Decent level of Fear: This means have a conscious. This means you should have some level of fear, like the fear of being fired, the fear of being sued, the fear of loosing your license to practice in your shitty trade, the fear you might screw up the children you work for more than thirty hours (30) a week!

I try everyday to wipe out all the painful memories my painful years in the middle and high schools I went to. Some of those people I worked with are no longer in the business of special needs and some of them are still working with children and not dealing with adults since that isn’t their narrow minded focus. I am sick and tired of feeling this way, and the only reason why I write this to the whole world is to wake up people who might not know what is happening in their child’s classroom, or any other 21 to 25 year olds dealing with depression that was unnecessary.
I ask myself, why are bad people still getting away of doing bad things to good people? When will these horrible people ever get a chance to visit hell?

The Excuses of why Autistic People Can’t Fall in Love

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I’ve did this a while back, let me revisit it with a few new excuses:

  • I didn’t know autistic people can talk!
  • They read someone’s Match profile and they are turned off because an autistic CAN actually imitate or copy off a woman’s feelings, i.e. their profile appears to turn a man off!
  • They realize they have the potential to have some relationship, but fears to do so to protect the political agenda set forth by organizations like Autism Speaks, the bible known as the Diagnosis and Statistical Manual of mental disorders or DSM that essentially claims that autistic people are mute and dumb (still to this day!)
  • The school boards of various locales lowers their social skills standards as creeps and perverts. The most liberal governing districts are the ones that lower this the most.
  • Speaking about low standards, girls typically don’t date guys with a lower social scale, educational backgrounds or even work statuses, so anyone with autism just lowers their standards even more
  • Girls or ladies can’t handle his’ sensory overload.
  • They feel they are too smart for them (but yet they want an intelligent man)
  • Some “normal” girls think autistics should date their own type (“find someone your own size!”)

That’s all for now, I’ll post more if I find more excuses, ahem, reasons why people don’t want to mess around with us!

Fathers, part two

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Earlier this year, I wrote a story on the lack of fathers.
I done it in a calm, gentile and politically correct way, unlike a major “news” channel had done this past week.
Now I have a follow-up story on it. The paragraph where I was referring to an NBCUniversal executive who lost two children as they got murdered by their nanny at their New York City apartments. Within a year of grief, the wife got knocked up recently. According to Media Bistro, Kevin and Marina Krimm are now expecting a baby boy.
Awww, how sweet!
Let’s pop the fake-champagne for this couple!
Or should we or the media be more critical of this couple? I would sure as hell hold these people accountable. The father works for the web operation as an executive for the New Jersey-based CNBC, sometimes perceived as the Corporate News and Betting Channel. The wife allegedly is in the same class. If you are going to work many hours, how in the hell do you think you should have the right to have children and expect to parent them appropriately?
Many people on the cable news mostly at the Fox networks were not happy that women are the breadwinners, and using this as the example that there is a lack of fathers in today’s society. More on the political and societal view can be viewed on my other blog.

Birthday

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My birthday is near and in the coming weeks I will be 26 years of age. It will be the 5 year mark where I had turned 21 and finished school on the same day. It is very scary to think how in half a decade how I have fallen apart and came to a hard realization about how I have to accept my differences, and accept my future outlooks in life. (I think you know its really about “relationships”.)
I don’t talk like I used to because I am tired of talking to slight egomaniacs. I am tired of hearing someone’s “honest” or someone pushing an agenda on me. I might be venting a little about my mother, but that’s really besides my point.
I am asking for much this year, nor do I really give a shit about it ether. As I wrote in last October, about my struggles of people remembering my birthday; I’ve just accepted the fact “its just another day”. That happened last year, I went on a trip to the mountains after doing some shopping at the state’s surplus agency getting networking gear. I brushed off the the 25th anniversary of my existence.
I am not happy about the big two-six. And this isn’t just the normal PDD obsession leading to one’s bday.  It’s actually worse.
I realize I won’t be happy. Its not because I choose not to, its because I am forced to not be happy. The leadership on the ASD self-interest has effectively slandered my group, and has effectively committed uncriminal behavior like psychological ID theft. These goddamned sons of bitches have forced me to grow up faster than my peers (since it is “normal” to still act like an adolescent at 35 years old, if you don’t have a disability) and yet these same sons – of  – bitches treat people like me as crap when they aren’t “on the clock”. These people insist we work for some corporation and be highly accountable at all times.
These freckin bastards also believe we should only fall in love in our own peer group. I’m talking about the PDD group. As you already know (I assume) the numbers of PDD male to female ratio is about 4 out of 5 male to female. I probably would say 3 out of 5 are females, since I see more of them in the adult services than I have seen in the special education. But still, I am put at a disadvantage.
My only wishes for my birthday is:

  1. Please, I ask the middle age women, who are ugly, bitter and hateful people  who act exactly the same as I just described: to stop acting as advocates for special needs! I also understand you might have an empty nest syndrome, but just stop saying for one example that autistic people can’t fall in love. DO NOT slander these people in private workshops BY CLEARLY saying its “not appropriate ” for us to attend when I feel you will painting EVERYONE with PDD with the most thickest brush to exist! Especially when WE STRUGGLE (in some cases for unneeded purposes) with RELATIONSHIPS and recklessly plan such workshop on mother fuckin’ VALENTINE’S DAY! It is your peers that have made me so mad and sad and not glad that the only life I can have is to be a fucking slave!I stand by my “fucking” beliefs, because you force me to use such needed coarse language! 
  2. I want people to LISTEN. Especially WOMEN! I don’t give a shit you have a cunt and tits, to me its sexist for me to expect me to listen to you and its fine for you not to listen to me and go off and talk, talk and talk and push your egomaniac agenda. If you want to be treated like everyone else, you have to not label yourself and act like everyone else, and sadly in this case men. (I hate using gender/age specific language, but it is these overeducated punks from Harvard, and other Middlesex County, Mass like regions around the world that unnecessarily done this reversed sexism!)
  3. As narrow-minded and possibly sexist and racist as it is, I would love to have a woman to be my romantic mate. (I can’t say “girlfriend” without being charged for “hate speech” because you can’t say a “girl” to a “woman”.) Therefore, I would like to have an adult female companion  I should just say, look into a slow relationship. For all I could know, having a romantic relationship may not work at all, and I could’ve wasted 10 years for nothing!
  4. The “experts” need to get their head out of their asses. I can’t say this enough. I also ask for paraprofessionals, professionals, teachers and other cold-hearted people between the hours of 9:00 to 5:00 local time to maybe learn that autistic people are just like you, and instead of not having friends in your outside life that are autistic, to maybe give it a chance? I’m not talking about HS aged people or current professional relationships, but have some freckin unity as we desperately need in my country! I only wished I could be integrated with “normal” Latinos, Blacks, Asians and other people of various backgrounds, and not be forced into a group I find is regressive and a group that won’t rightfully go forward according to my social, political and systemic standards.

I’ve realized I have done some bitching, but many punks in my life have no idea what they have done to me, and how its ok to not be accountable of their actions, their words and their actions. It is men with a certain social standard who have wrongfully been abused and used!
I do not hate women! And I mean that. I respect them! They are very caring people, and they have great talents! Younger ladies is rare, thirtysomethings you have better luck I only have a problem when they go on a political or systemic tirade against one social class for no realistic reason in the general population, and get away with it. Sadly, many are near or post menopausal and they generically look ugly, because they act as if they are fat and ugly.  I hate to be so biased, but since ASD and PDD individuals are mostly male, I feel so personally offended to be an adult male because we have to treat women as God.
I only ask to be somewhat happy for my Birthday. But apparently in America that is asking for too much according to all the experts I have to comply since America is now a “1984” society.
P.S. there is one other thing I would want for my birthday. To have more traffic on this blog and more discussions from my readers, because if it weren’t for you (if you even read my blogs) this blog wouldn’t exist.
End of my political/personal rant.

Autistic People Can’t…

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…fall in love
…have intimate relationships
…have any “normal” friends, only their nerological peers
…publish web logs, because typically they write things that aren’t approprite for the public packet-waves
…can’t leave comments on blogs, only failover  to clicking on the “like” button
…have cyber friends
…can’t use dating sites
…can’t meet new people only if they have friends that know new people
..can’t use social networking webstites
…can’t cant can’t can’t can’t cant can’t can’t can’t cant can’t can’t can’t cant can’t can’t can’t cant can’t can’t can’t cant can’t can’t can’t cant can’t can’t can’t cant can’t can’t can’t cant can’t can’t can’t cant can’t can’t can’t cant can’t can’t* do anything other than be corporate whores!
(*sorry I guess my Betacam tape got “jammed” inside the deck)
If you found this page and you are trying to get answers, well here is a very direct response.
AUTISTIC PEOPLE CAN’T BE SOCIAL WITHOUT COMING OFF AS RETARDED!
AUTISTICS CAN’T TOUCH A GIRL WITHOUT SIGNING UP FOR A LEVEL 3 SEX OFFENDER!
AUTISTICS CAN’T REPRODUCE DUE TO SOME UNWRITTEN FEDERAL RESTRICTION
So to answer the question again, Autistics CANNOT FALL IN LOVE OR HAVE ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS!

Why I hate Vday, part six

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Some of tonight’s TV programs had a Valentine’s Day theme, especially with The Big Bang Theory, and The Office. If you are a fan and you are in the Left Coast, or you live in another locale that runs these programs at other time blocks, I’ll won’t spoil the plots.
But I will say it had drama between encounters with an ex, and the bickering between one or the other couple, depending on what respected show it was.
In the real world, do people really get emotional about an ex? And does their hormones reactivate with the ex lover?
What do I know, I am the true virgin of this blog!

Slutty in the Head – Valentines Day Edition!

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I’m so depressed.
As time goes on tonight, people are likely going to lock their bedroom door and do some love making. And when I mean by love making, more of the sense of a sexual intercourse. It’s something like a man and a woman mate and one inserts his penis into a girls vagina and in some cases it leads to pregnancy and that’s where babies come from (poking fun at the Super Bowl commercial in a lame ass way.)
Ok so you got your sex ed now lets see how it leads that way.
So in the ads this past Sunday, the retailers of course are capitalizing on it. Here you see me take pictures of reading the ads and my opinions as I read on.
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JC Penney (ahem JCP) had a nice looking model. Those panties on the right in the pink colored looks hot. Its mesh. I wonder if it would turn someone on especially seeing a certian bare area!
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those hot panties with the mesh, I can’t help to resist a way to turn a man on by teasing your vaginal area!
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Another bullshit marketing campaign is to “Follow Your Heart” according to Macy’s
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Show her some Love with JCP’s new Fun Fearless Female Collection from Cosmopolitan. Again some really slutty outfits! When I mean slutty, I mean really sexy styles!
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Some other cute unmentionables to rip off in the bed, especially the one with the pink bra and panty on the bottom.
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Other hot outfit for the night to fuck one another rip and screw around – a lace cami bra!
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while this one has nothing to do with Valentine’s Day per se, this model is really cute. And she’s got a name. Her name is Lacey Nelson. I use some resources, that I have linked on the far right of my blog.