Update

Update: As of a few hours after posting, things appear to be normal.
I’ve just updated my global WordPress username. You’ll only notice the change, if you see my comments, replies, likes, follows, etc and its tied to my Graviator, the account that links all my WordPress blogs on one account. I believe that this change should be seamless and should had limited disruption to my blogs and my comments on the other WordPress blogs.
I needed to do the changeover, but I feared the admin rights to all of my blogs would potentially get screwed up. I did notice some oddities after the switchover.  This very little change was in part of this was that I feel that there are people I know that are trying to get dirt and knowing a handle that might show my likeness would defeat the purpose of my blog.
I never intend to have an “anonymous” blog. I believe in a semi-annoymous blog by writing in by a first name basis and having the trust and respsonsibility that the information i post is true and hold all responsibilities of my content.
This is being written on my iPad so please excuse the grammar errors as the ipad cant correct with the WP web page.

A general goal for this blog

I don’t do too well on setting goals and target objectives but this is a small vision I see for this blog, as this blog is still in Beta stage:

  • To speak about various forms of “relationships” like
    • family, parents, siblings, cousins
    • friendships, and how to figure out the hierarchy with “mutual friends” vs. “close friends” v.s. BFFs, etc.
    • What defines acquaintances, “familiar faces”, “friends” professional relationships
  • From what I see as an individual, basing such analysis from “people watching”, looking at Facebook profiles, and simple profiling of people and their relationships rom a naked eye
  • Is the mass media destroying relationships?
  • Is there “mixed messages” about relationships?
  • Are people afraid of expanding their social circle due to unnecessary teaching about socializing?

More of this can be found on the Mission Statement Page
Unlike the other blog I have been publishing since its go live date in January 2011, I want to expand this issue onto a larger and deeper scale. I also want to attract a larger audience and maybe see this blog as being more successful than the other blog, maybe with more followers and reciprocation between the readers responding to this blog and vice versa.
I will warn, that this blog won’t give many answers, but more asking questions that probably  won’t be answered, hence the “puzzling” in the title. It’s very frustrating that a small (but a growing) group of people have been taken advantage of being left out for being “like everyone else.” I am crafting ideas of new posts to put it out into the ether about the general view about the definition of  “relationships”