Editorial: This platform endorses Writing In Marilinda Garcia for New Hampshire Governor

With the political hell thawing like our polar ice caps, much like the change of climate… New Hampshire will likely burn to hell.

Unless you write in Marilinda Garcia, while she fell off the face of the earth politically as far back as 2018, her last whereabouts was in the Windham area formerly served in the General Court as a state rep. She’s 41 and probably has a family and may no longer reside in this state since the draft of this endorsement, research shows her socials has been lifeless since the 2018 midterms. And I (and my former minifig TV station) had monitored Marilinda for almost a decade.

Given she is a right leaning Latino, she has been hawkish on the border; is a solid conservative without the baggage of an authorative right winger. She has some strong hard right issues historically, but she doesn’t have a toxic personality and never seeked higher power the way so many did before. She lacks the personality like Chris Sununu and is much a cooler-chick than red hot menopausal Kelly Ayotte, but she at least appeared to be receptive, open to a certain degree and lacks the toxicities.

Just a couple weeks ago, Kelly verbally bit a person recording and asking about abortion  Kelly snapped like a real life coyote. Ayotte was not taken by animal control and person didn’t press charges for a handler covering the camera or the apparent verbal abuse

is this wasting a vote? I don’t like the direction of this state, I’ve written over 2,000 words how the Democratic Party of the granite state has give me the finger and Kelly blocked the Meta page which the Meldrim Thompson 2.5 in a dress will probably block me IRL too.

I am politically homeless and hopeless that New Hampshire will no longer be a state in America in 5 years. Our state has been a dumpster fire. Kelly (No Relation to Steven) Ayotte will make this state even more scummier than ever. At least Marilinda Garcia has ten times more class than anyone else in our political system.

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Granite State’s Pick-Me-Autism-Mom Finally Figures Out There’s Little Autism Resources for Adults…

Carrie Cariello finally has come to some realization that adults with autism have been fucked long before Jack was ever born…

In a recent Instagram reel, Cariello is sounding like a typical housewife acting like this is some new discovery. She just turned 50 so she isn’t a Boomer, but clearly her ignorance is so bliss.

But really No Shit Sherlock – it took you that long to figure that out? This blog has been online in various forms since 2011 and I have data to back up that people were looking for this as far back as the early 2010s.

Gotta give this woman props for the drum I have been beating for so long!

Mama Trauma…

This week has been “off” the one or a couple times where I have put up with my mother for 24x7x365 for nearly 4 years has been daunting and to have a resiliency of not blowing up like a teenage autistic would normally be complemented in a modest manner. However given the unhealthy relationship my mother and I are going through, it’s been extremely challenging.

Sunday I was a bit snippy and I lost it. The other day my mother was just going on and on and having to explain something I can pick up without needing to be talked to like a first grader. This morning, I was under the impression my mother was going to take care of her brother and go to the Manchester office, but then to my chagrin she pulls a curveball of going to the Massachusetts office instead.

Cognitive dissonance much? The reason was a bit passive agressive, she thought she didn’t feel welcome to be at home because apparently I snapped at her. Well at 7:00 or 7:30 in the morning I am not expecting another body in the house! And she wants me to speak more directly than speaking around things to prevent confusion to some annual work related to me, I stopped her and “I’m going to say this straight” and I felt like broke a teacup. She was silent when I left to say “goodnight”.

The lack of emotional control is really draining on me. Is it OK for me to snap at my mother? No, should I be more patient? Perhaps. But for her to be hyper-sensitive to tone and delivery to the point she is not feeling validated using grievance as a tool to manipulate my behavior is pretty infantile.

This should be a public service announcement for females of all ages to have their hormones checked or controlled.

When Avoidant People Become Avoidable

Avoid is such a “favorite” word of mine, I like to attribute that hatred to people like the Ed Brouders of the world and other Propaganda Artists at the local police departments masquerading as “Public Information Officers” who order to media outlets to “avoid [a road]” instead of leaving the driver clueless and helpless to figure out an alternative route.  Or my favorite one on NHDOT signage is “Expect Delays” – when and how long?

In fact I think that’s why New Hampshire is a dumpster fire, all the damaged children and adult females allow their trauma to replay, and as a result they threw it away and it makes this state stink so badly. I hate my state’s media because it always ties back to the Timesaving New Hampshire Traffic hits of “avoiding Route 3” without any way of learning how to get around it without telling you, because you should know anyways. 

If you are familiar with domestic local media, Shadow Broadcast Services, better known as Shadow Traffic never used such language structures like the former WZID traffic hack. Their traffic reporters always gave you the alternative like holding ones hands without being so authoritative (again Brouder comes to mind YET again.) In recent years stations that used to use Shadow worked in-house at various media outlets around the country. one was New York’s WCBS 880 and their traffic reports in house till the format’s death on August 23rd would use phrase “I’d use the Holland instead” or “better off with using the Triborough” while media outlets closer to home will just say whatever social media feed tells them to repeat, and does WZID still have cell number for reporting traffic? I don’t think so.

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Editorial: Kelly Ayotte is an Existential Threat to the Granite State

In about a couple weeks weeks (my next haircut happens on the day before) Election Day; I have considered if I should risk my life, family and reputation to call out an alarming concern if things specifically happen on Election Day, our state will never be the same. I have waited until I felt it was the right time to call out in fairness to verify Kelly Ayotte’s dangerous political rhetoric she has done well before she registered to run for governor this spring. Ayotte’s campaign Facebook page blocked access to The Hopeless Autistic last week.

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Editorial: The NHDP Does not “Represent” Me in their “Democracy”

The New Hampshire Democratic Party, as bad as living in a deep red state own does not speak for me. In state & local politics, as early as my twenties, neither party addressed my concerns. the Democratic party like the GOP will most likely lead me on of listening but not acting, where in the NHGOP, when the phone don’t ring, you’ll know it’s them.

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The Ongoing Unhealthy Family Structures

My mother and I were “off” today. A bit ago the old woman went outside for a long period of time. She comes back in being a bit snippy. I asked (in a higher pitched/sympathetic tone)  “is everything’s ok?” and she responded with “I’m doing perfectly fine” sarcastically.

Due to my mental stamina today there was a miscommunication on wetting the grass from what happened a couple weeks ago while I misunderstood she “needed help” (translation: she pushed-me to “help” her no less than 10 minutes before the halftime Kansas Chiefs at the 49ers game. I also wasn’t in the mood to be “instructed” how to use the sprinkler or the outdoor faucet. She opted to play passive aggressive to “make a little note to never ask you for any help because you’re conveniently unavailable.”
I just walked away feeling guilty and any showing of ownership make her remark “I don’t know what to say” but then she took the “I’m going to walk away” as a passive/agressive remark so she then * all of a sudden * “wanted silence”.  Ok… Says the person who talks during a game about what happened on the sports talk stations the previous week, in almost verbatim.
Of course because I snipped at her, I have to take that responsibility and sacrifice tomorrow’s schedule because she “shut down” for the night emotionally. So if dishes (which she said she was going to do… perhaps “didn’t feel like it” would come up) and laundry aren’t done tomorrow, that means the house won’t be clean until Friday at the latest because she’ll be on site for Tuesday into Thursday.
Two wrongs don’t make it a right. She’s severely disreg’d and the one who takes the flack has to be yours truly. Her emotions is a grievance and I’m more and more confused on how to “help” her other than tasks she wants me to do, but if I offer any help, well it has to be in her confusing list of expectations.
I’m leaving it at that

Masculinity Monday: Picking Apart Male Behaviors, Attitudes, Etc.

On Mondays, I’ll write about various topics about masculinity, the behaviors, and other traits of men or boys.

Waaaayy before male/gender dysmorphia, autism and male were both a dually stigmatizing thing growing up in the early oughts. Not to mention having female feminist teachers who also didn’t like boys or alpha men either. The men who were in middle or high school programs where I attended were emotionally-unavailable.

For so many years being ganged up by women, and teachers with feminists agendas, I was really held hostage for my own belief system. Moreover in the many years in the SPED school system, that I had to be a “nice-guy” and “respect women” by bending over backwards. As a result of this to quote DINO “Dr. Jordan Peterson”, “Nice guys finish last”.

But when I would try to get into the real world, I would run into men (albeit on the tech forums, the “IT Professional” forums or even freckin social media, I would notice this crass men, who often would speak directly and also brag about “cheap” stuff they got on eBay or love to use variants of “good” and just noticing how sick these species known as adult males also known as men can be.

Then we have tomboy types of women, who ride feminism but want to act and have the freedom of men then protect women’s sports. Yeah, I am talking about Kelly, that Kelly. 

Since this blog started, the red pill or the so-called “manosphere” really was a niche and fringe group but when JD Vance started to say wild crap and Elon Musk reposting batshit stuff on X formerly known as Twitter, and from what I have seen online that was on the borderline of fringe, lead to mainstream cringe. This lead me to produce a special series of reports at the minifig TV station a couple winters ago.

To say that it’s hard to be a guy in 2024, a reasonable and kind would be an understatement.

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#TransformationTuesday Self Advocacy = Activism

Corrected on October 4th, to reflect mistake on the name of the “parade” in Concord that occurs on the 5th since the people who lead the organization can’t talk directly!

Because I was out-of-districted in Massachusetts, the only self advocacy I learned was trial-and-error, fumbling and tackling down teachers and management, embarrass them in Section 504 meetings, etc. I was one jaded little teen.

Lots of people I know that vary in this very state are getting ick-ed by the rise of activism masqueraded as self-advocacy

From my understandings, self advocacy was taught on this side of the border more for speaking up for what you need. Self advocacy is an important skill, and sometimes in a political context.

According to people I meet, they often notice my ability to self-advocate, But I can’t speak for others because I used to be a loudmouth ahole, so what do I know?

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